Serenity, you are a strong, amazing, thoughtful woman. Any man would be lucky to have you.
Most of you don't realize this, but there is a "Notify" feature that you can enable on the forum, to allow you to follow a favorite thread, or a particular poster. I use it rarely -- usually only when I'm concerned about someone's physical well-being, or their severely distraught emotional state, so that I'll get an e-mail notifying me that they've posted to the board, and the e-mail will include a copy of their post, and a link to it. (Contrary to popular belief, I DO have a life outside of the DB boards, y'know. )
Anyway, I digress.
I've noticed a pattern with our Serenity. No matter HOW much of her own chit she's dealing with, my first "notify" e-mails about her every day ALWAYS are posts from her to others, where she offers support, advice or simply encouragement. THEN, the LAST one, will be her own post to her own thread, where she vents or asks for advice or just gives us an update.
That "concern for others, first" Serenity is what will keep you strong and okay thru all of this. The God I believe in protects people like you, and helps them.
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