Save my marriage to w she is moving on

[ugetvince]

Im 39 years and my w is 33.
7 years married...9 years together
2 children ages 1 and 3
OCt 4th she sent me a text message that she is not coming home.
The first two weeks i tried to talk to her and convince her to come back. Since last Mon Oct 19 all conversations or text have been about children.
No she is living w parents about a couple of miles away.
I think she had a emotional affair when she was pregnant but as far as I know has had no contact since last September 2008.