We all think that way...however...

This is your first homework assignment...

Give up thinking or wishing that you, or anyone, can change her mind, convince her, "knock some sense into her", or in any way influence her in this.

You have a process to go through for you.

She has a process to go through for her.

The only one who can change the way she is thinking and acting is your wife herself.

Give up control. It's an illusion anyway.

(I know. I struggle with the same thing. Most of us do.)

Last edited by Thinker; 10/28/09 05:40 PM.
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