Just curious GIMA, have you really invested in option 1? It seems like you have spend most nights with her, still call her frequently, still do lots of nice things for her.

I completely understand why, since it seemed like she had been coming closer to you over the past couple of months, but amping up the GAL may be worth a try.

Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.