Over the Shock and GALing 6

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Good morning to all that our there. My situation looks like this at this point. My wife of seven years left three weeks ago to move in with her parents. We have two children ages 1 and 3. She has been saying for quite sometime that she is miserable and not happy. We tried counseling but she only wanted to go for 6 sessions. She had left for 2 days in the month of May and after she came back i wondered if she was really trying to work on our marriage. She left one of the cribs at her parents and alot of her personal belongings. I would tell her if were going to make this marriage work we have to be fully committed to that. I feel like she hasnt been since then.
There are many things that have happened this last year and its been hard on both of us.
First she was pregnant for most of 2008 and had a really hard pregnancy. She said that I wasnt there for her when she was sick. I come to find out during her six and seven months into the pregnancy that she had been speaking to a M friend about 200-300 times per month? When I found out about she stopped but there been alot of insecurity on my part ever since.
I lost my job of 17 years in Oct 2008. We had to file BK and lost our home to foreclosure in Aug of 2009.I think that alot of the financial problems created a huge void in our marriage.
I thought we would be able to survive but she just cant handle it anymore and has stated she is "moving on with her life".
She initial left via a text message stating that she was miserable and couldnt live this way anymore.
We had been living at my parents until we could get back on our feet. I have tried the first week she was gone to talk to her and convince her to at least try to make things work. Her attitude got worse by the day. I have completly backed off at this point. I recieved the book bd via anoymouus family member that sent it apparently to both of us.
I asked her if she recieved and if she read it and this was her reply." No i will not be reading it whoev! er sent it was out of line". Any advice from anyone.
Thanks