just checking in on you... I see Nathan is still under the weather, hope he is fever free today.
Okay, getting something notarized takes about 10 minutes at any bank or a hundred other places.
I agree to not involve your dad. That's bad mojo for him and maybe a conflict of interest, but maybe the threat will be enough to spurn Dan on to do it.
We will see today wont' we. He doesn't want you but I don't think he wants anyone else to want you either thus doesn't want to let you go....hhhmmmm sounding vaguely like me LOL
Anyway, like your attitude about MG, dont' want him to think your some desperate housewive sitting at home waiting to be rescued!
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
hell..I'll go against the grain..I'd send dad...lines in the sand will be drawn anyway once this gets underway proper...in the big scheme of things what's it matter anyway??
hell..I'll go against the grain..I'd send dad...lines in the sand will be drawn anyway once this gets underway proper...in the big scheme of things what's it matter anyway??
Oh Mikey, when haven't you gone against the grain? That's what I love about ya! I am still keeping that option open...
Just checked my email, got one from my attorney. Won't be as painless as I thought...we wrote up our agreement of who gets what. But, they want us to attach a valuation to each item to make sure it is an 'equitable distribution'...
I figure as long as we don't care, why should they? Oh well....whatever it takes is what we will do.
And........................I think I have a date for Monday night.
Give me an idea what is planned for first meeting. I usually like to suggest a walk in a park as sitting down face to face for coffee on a first meeting feels weird.
And if you dont call it a date, but just an introduction, that tends to take some of the tension off. But no matter how you slice it is a bit awkward.
Ok, now I will get in trouble....you know where I stand on you moving on BBJ (aka you can do better / deserve better / yada yada yada).....but, this may be a tad quick. But hey, as long as you keep it fun don't get too "involved". The reason why I say this BBJ is I know this bullsh!t has been going on too long with Dan. However, you just recently decided to file...I think you still would take him back in a flash if he would ask. So, on one end I am very happy that you have a date and on another (yes the negative John is rearing his ugly head) I have an uneasy feeling. I am sorry i just can not put it into words. Again keep it fun and like you said earlier don't go from one long term to another too quickly. Remember I sampled quite a bit before landing on a lady I really like and sometimes I think I went a little fast.... bottom line is have fun!
At this point I don't think I would take him back "in a flash". I know signs point to "yes she would!" given my track record, but I am (finally) learning. It would take a lot of effort on his part to be the man I want/need him to be. So even if he were interested I wouldn't consider anything until there were a series of observable actions to go along with words. Besides I really don't expect him to try again at this point. I think when he said he didn't have that 'spark' for me in his email, he was finally telling the truth...
Also, as I said I don't intend to roll in to another serious relationship. And MG does not seem interested in that either. We both just want to go out and have a good time...
Second, Kerry...
I mis-spoke in calling it a date, I suppose. We didn't call it a date, we have just been trying to find a time to 'get together'. We talked again for about 45 minutes last night and it is clear that he is a busy guy just as I am a busy girl. Which is why he have talked for almost 10 hours already and not even seen each other in person!
He came up with the idea for the evening based on our conversations. He said it was pretty apparent that I am a competitive person so he suggested meeting up to play some darts and have a beverage or two. So it isn't the pressure of a sit-down dinner, nor is it a movie or other arena where you can't talk to each other. Plus Monday being a work night, I will have to get home fairly early so no worries about ending the evening, either. I think it will be fun!
I continue to peruse the match website and my cousin who is a good friend, too, said she has some nice guy friends at work, she just didn't know I was thinking about getting 'out there' yet... So my options are definitely open.
I will John....and speaking of sampling the buffet, a guy I was perusing last night (but did not contact) just emailed me to say he was interested, what a coincidence!
i dont understand the coincidence....don't forget that on some of these sites, you can access who has looked at your profile. I consider myself to be quite well versed on the on-line dating "scene"....so don't be afraid to ask!
That's what I love about ya! I am still keeping that option open...
