Leaving the Land of Insanity...

[BobbiJo]

Ok, John first...

At this point I don't think I would take him back "in a flash". I know signs point to "yes she would!" given my track record, but I am (finally) learning. It would take a lot of effort on his part to be the man I want/need him to be. So even if he were interested I wouldn't consider anything until there were a series of observable actions to go along with words. Besides I really don't expect him to try again at this point. I think when he said he didn't have that 'spark' for me in his email, he was finally telling the truth...

Also, as I said I don't intend to roll in to another serious relationship. And MG does not seem interested in that either. We both just want to go out and have a good time...

Second, Kerry...

I mis-spoke in calling it a date, I suppose. We didn't call it a date, we have just been trying to find a time to 'get together'. We talked again for about 45 minutes last night and it is clear that he is a busy guy just as I am a busy girl. Which is why he have talked for almost 10 hours already and not even seen each other in person!

He came up with the idea for the evening based on our conversations. He said it was pretty apparent that I am a competitive person so he suggested meeting up to play some darts and have a beverage or two. So it isn't the pressure of a sit-down dinner, nor is it a movie or other arena where you can't talk to each other. Plus Monday being a work night, I will have to get home fairly early so no worries about ending the evening, either. I think it will be fun!

I continue to peruse the match website and my cousin who is a good friend, too, said she has some nice guy friends at work, she just didn't know I was thinking about getting 'out there' yet... So my options are definitely open.