That is extrememly hurtful with OW. I can completely see why you are mad. I know DB says to try other modes of communication, so maybe writing a letter would not be a bad idea. But just make sure to not give him your first draft. Like today, write down everything you feel you want to say to him. Tomorrow, re-read it and see if it is still what you really want to say. Edit some things. Editing like this a couple of times should help you weed out some of the things that you are saying just to be hurtful to him and get down to your true deep emotions and concerns. As you edit, just try to follow DB principles too and not attack him. Writing things down should help you feel better too by getting it all out, plus hopefully, you'll have a letter at the end that you feel comfortable with giving to H.
So sorry to hear how sick S is. Glad to hear H is helping you out some with that though, so you don't have to go thru it completely alone.
If S is feeling up to it, I was trying to think of some inside activities that are fun, that you could do with S this weekend. Do you have any childrens museums nearby and maybe one of those indoor play centers (I've seen ones that are filled with balls or bounce houses). That's the problem with late fall/winter though - it's just too cold to do all the wonderful outdoor things. Boo.
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
