From reading the boards here, it appears that some WAS don't get the wake up call they need until Option 2 is put into play. I would never do option 2 as a mere gambit, however. If you go there, you have to be ready to ride the dragon for the entire journey.
I think in my sitch it helped that we seperated and there were D papers filed. Made me really focus on what was important. Plus having the clock ticking creates a deadline that you know is coming, the opposite of limbo. I don't want to speak totally for the Greek but I think she would agree.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
