There are some WAS's that are simply so staunch in their decision to bail that nothing will make them take a second look. Mix in an affair and no amount of dating by the LBS will make a bit of difference.
My H is the type of person that once he decides something that is it. No looking back. No second guessing. His decisions are final. So me dating would have only hindered me and my healing and growth.
That^ is my W to a tee. Fear of loss may work well in some instances, but some WAS are just too far down the line.
CABBR
Well the idea is to try things that are different from what you are currently doing, stop doing what doesn't work and start trying things that might work.
Don't negate fear of loss or walking power - alot of people have had success with these things.
