LOL, no - I'm saying that from what I read on these boards, many WAS (and some LBS too) are in the grip of cognitive distortions, warped perceptions of reality.
WAS: My spouse is a complete loser. I never loved him/her.
LBS: I was the perfect spouse!! WAS is a nutjob with no valid complaints whatsoever!!
Both are also defense mechanisms, forms of denial.
Last edited by Dia; 10/28/0904:13 PM.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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