T - Best of luck today with the new MC, we've been through three (two of which were divorced themselves) and have not found a truly "pro-marriage" one yet so I hope it works out for you whatever direction you choose.
GIMA is right on - the "no expectations" part is the hardest to maintain, especially when a question is asked and then answered differently than expected. Maybe not necessarily falsely but perhaps omitting relevant information. Tough to hold your tongue sometimes and give her a chance to elaborate.
Anyway, good luck!
Me 47 W 44 D16, D13 T 23yrs M 20yrs WAW/MLC + Male EA "BFF from H.S." = Misery