From reading the boards here, it appears that some WAS don't get the wake up call they need until Option 2 is put into play. I would never do option 2 as a mere gambit, however. If you go there, you have to be ready to ride the dragon for the entire journey.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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