Well said with that last post. On the topic of my earlier comment on the IM, I don't mean to keep something secret but no need to send the IM while the ticket is being written! Bring it up that night, next day, whatever. And as you detach and live more separate, that stuff needs to happen. There are a lot of times I want/think I should pick up the phone or send a message to my W now, but I pause and really think "is this necessary right now?"
H35 W34 S4 | T-10 yrs M-6 yrs WAW said M over 04/09 | Living separate since 09/09 Thread #1 Thread #2 Thread #3
