I had to run home at lunch and ended up talking with WAS. She claims that she has ended the emotional relationship as OM is instead going to work on his marriage. She claims they do not intend to have any further contact. She claims that they never had sexual relations and that the extent of their physical contact was 5-6 occasions where they "kissed". She accused me of nearly breaking up a marriage (OM's). WAS claims she would not have continued relationship with OM (if they had not been discovered) because OM is married. I'm rather skeptical of that claim given that less than 24 hours ago she was professing her love for OM and saying that his marriage was over in any event.
I'm glad to hear you're skeptical. Because she's lying to you.
Puppy
It's hard to believe how naive I was. For example, I was aware of this email communication from March of this year from WAS to OM:
“Hey you,
[Dazed] said he may go out tonight. I will have to make sure. I don't want the kids left alone for to long. Hope your having a good day!"
It sounds like they may have been planning to meet up later. Sure enough, our telephone records reflect that she placed a call to him at 5:00 p.m. that evening.
I remain frustrated/hurt/upset that she continues to lie.
So what's next?? Do I simply detach and give her loads of space??? She alternates between warmth (she solicited a hug last night) and anger (kiss my ass, [censored]) with great frequency. I am too easily being lured into R discussions (which simply enable her to reinforce her decision and declare the M over).
