Its not you. He is unhappy with himself and takes it out on you. I used to say the same things to my W and it wasn't true once I stopped drinking. He has to quit drinking and then he will wake up and realize that you are not what makes him unhappy. Until he stops drinking, this is likely to just continue.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...