I'm glad we steered this convo back tot he important things in life...beautiful women aand golf...not in that particuliar order..
the more wedges you have the better off you are..IMO..
and putters..I have 3..a Ping J blade, a long putter--a two ball White Hot...built for me..the top of the shaft hits me mid sternum...and a SeeMore..I'm currently using the SeeMore..when the short putter goes south then I go to the long putter and it seems to make a big difference and gets me back int he groove..
the short game is where it is..I've turned many double bogies into bogies with my short game...
Ebay is a good place to get good used clubs..
as for the women...I have no advice..if it feels good just do it...