Careful, she may see that as pushing. She heard you the first time. She could be avoiding the answer or burying her head in the sand hoping you will forget about it and then so can she. She would have to want to put in the work to actually go to Retro and right now it just doesn't sound like she's willing to do that.
You are absolutely correct as to Retro. Unless she is ready to work on the M, I don't think Retro will help (anyone correct me if I'm wrong).
I am walking a fine line here. If I push too much, then that creates pressure. If I leave it alone, no pressure, then we revert back to limboland. I don't wnat either of those. So, somewhere in the middle is the target.
