Puppy - In our case, I did do something wrong. Hell, it was legally and morally wrong. And that one night I admitted here, was only the most extreme example.
My wife has clearly stated that horrible night was the last straw. But other things like it (touching her while she slept etc) made her feel used and disrespected. So, yes, she was wayward before, but really mostly due to the same issues. Even in the last 2 months, when she would give a little, I would expect more and try to take it. Yes, we had other issues, but they could have been dealt with.
It may be too late for me to save our marriage by finally giving her what she needs. But I figure there is never truly a wrong time to do the right thing.
