Thanks Puppy. I really put a lot of calm, rational thought into the decision. Is is what feels right for me right now. I may be sorry later, but learning to live with my mistakes is part of this process.
I have been an emotional wreck for the last 2 months (as my posts make clear!) and I am ready to get past the point of feeling ill every day. I can't honestly say I will ever stop hoping for my wife to come back until the day it is 100% impossible, but I have to start living for me and still keep that hope somewhere in my heart.
During our talk last night, she alluded to the fact that her moving out isn't the absolute end in her mind. I think that right now, she simply needs to get away from the anger and bad memories and get healthier physically.
It's time to really give her space and work on me and then let her decide what is right for her. I don't want our old marriage anymore than she does. So, either way, we are moving towards something better.
