Well Donna, I don't really have issues with OM being with XW, he wants her, he can have her as she is the person she became, and I certainly don't like that person.
My issue with OM is being directly involved from get go one in my kids lives and essentially taking my place with out so much as uttering one word to me. So in that regard, no there will be no cushy sitting around at BBQ's and he is not to attend any events for the kids, XW knows I will tear him limb from limb if he does.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11