Steve,
I had sored of ignored her when she talked to me for a long time. Half listening while doing something else but not really paying attention to her and then asking her about stuff she had told me while I wasn't listening. I've been turning that around. I take responsibility.

I was sending mixed signals I think and instigated some things. She had said when things cooled down that "I don't get you, you say you want to work on things and then...".

My wife works as well. She does long days Tues, Thurs and works Sat too and every other Wed. Mon and Fri she is with D2 all day.

If I asked to do that I think she would feel like it is invasion of a privacy boundary. She texts everyone, it's not just one person. She tells me alot of the time who she is texting with. She doesn't talk to everyone on the phone and texts people instead.

Male names that pop up. No....have to run. But no. Nothing new there. I'll update later.


Me: 30
W: 29
D: 20 months
M: 5 years
T: 6.5 years
ILYBNILWY and want to separate: 10/5/2009

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