Thanks. I do feel better b/c I've kept these things in for so long. It is ok she lashed out b/c she can't and won't be able to accept her part of our D. She'll continue to blame me b/c it is easier and more convenient for her to do.
She has a distorted version of the facts and I did say it was unfortunate that she will continue to view me in that light, but that is something I can't change.
For me, I think this is a step forward away from the past that has been weighing me down for a bit too long.