She also gave you a gift in letting you know how OM stands. He is worried about his M. So that means.....if you needed it....contact to OM's W might help bust things up if things continue.....if required. OM worrying about his own M also lets your W see just where she stands in his priorities.

I know things seem bad but there are some glimmers of hope in the reactions you are getting from your W.

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength