Hello All Thought I'd let you know that I sat up a MC appt. You can do this alone or as a couple. I had a lengthy conversation with the therapist and he seems that he'll be able to help.
I did let my H know as I'd like him to come - maybe that was wrong? He said he wouldn't be there b/c he's already made his decision and so on. I'm still going. It'll help me in the future; hopefully with him.
My 1st appt (consult) is tomorrow so wish me luck that I found the right therapist for me
Part 2 - the OM can't seem to get out of my life, let go. How do I handle this? I've said all the appropriate things. We do work together but not in direct contact so that's really not an issue. BUT, he does feel the need to call or come by my house. He says he just wants to talk, but I can see that he's just trying to "smooze" me......
Advice?
Distracted 1978 Me - 30 H - 28 D - 13, 8, 7 S - 21 months SS - 6
My Bomb to him 10/26/2008 Separated (physically) 03/15/2009 Filed for legal separation 10/01/2009
