OK, yes it is difficult to prove a EA without her acknowledging one, HOWEVER, a female in an EA is more damaging to a relationship than any PA would ever be. Remember that. A man can have a PA and not really have a lasting feeling, but more damaging to the LBW, it is the opposite sitch to the LBH. A woman involved emotionally in most cases is going to cause terminal issues to any relationship if she cannot cut ties one hundred percent to the OP. You need to find out what you are dealing with here! Plain and simple! Here is your 2x4. You cannot go into battle blind, or you are giving up all the cards in your hand.
