Can I save my marriage?

[TrentC]

You already know your a good person. Now embrace and reward yourself. Hold your own hand.

This is awesome. You're right. I look in the mirror and see a good person that just really wants somebody to love. Preferably my H, but if its not in the cards, there's not much I can do about it.

The thing is? Although none of us want to admit it, there are other people out there who will love us as much as we want our spouses to.

This is the other reason why GAL and detaching are important: if those changes are not good enough for the people we're with, they may be good enough for someone else.