Not wanting to be on this boat........

[Buffet]

yes, I agree and I am not trying to refute the advice or help given here. Believe me I am not denying that "poor, sweet, loving faithful W" could be having/probably is having some kind of A.
I am just not sure on which one and have tried to snoop best I can but am running into dead ends. I assume if I am going to throw that card out than I would need some pretty solid evidence. A couple of months ago I did ask the ? but was of course told "absolutly not" but I have learned and read you cannot trust most of what is said.....