I wonder what Puppy's advice would be on snooping to find out. There has got to be some way. There can be no recovery of the marriage as long as an A is going on. That is why I listed discovery of the A as number one. It is the biggest and most pressing matter at the moment. Can you have a voice-actived recorder in her car (I know that is stooping really low- but concerning the circumstances) Puppy has also mentioned using a cell phone in the truck of your wife's car as a cheap GPS device. You REALLY have to find out or disprove the A b4 you can more forward.
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
