the rest of the advice seems spot on, ecspecially #6. I do not think it is healthy for me to get into anymore R talks unless she is initiating them and coming from a rational place. These crazy arguments are wearing real thin with me right now--the opposite though is also true, I cannot stand it/HATE it when she just carries on like all is well in the world, maybe some of her own medicine would do the trick. The only but on my part, is that this feels like a big game, and I do not like that on her part or mine. Reading here I would like to get to a place where I am doing all of these things to make me better first and foremost, than let the rest of the chips fall where they may--- I have read DB and DR and am working on 5 love languages as well. But I need some help/advice/guidance/material to work on the mental side for me. Right now everything is consciously or sub-consciously being done with the thought "how would/does this effect my M and W feelings?" I need some big time help (or my first 2x4) on this part!
H: 30 W: 31 S: 2 T/M: 6/4 D Final 4-5-10
Bomb: June 09 Status: D'd and moving onward and upward?
