Not wanting to be on this boat........

[Buffet]

Thanks June---I like that game plan at least it gives me a script to work off of. I feel like when I am the only one coming up with a plan that it is to easy to make mistakes.
The affair part would be easy to prove if it was a PA not so much on a EA i am afraid. I do believe that there is something going on, however maybe naive, or just dumb but I do not think, or want to think that it is physical. If it is an EA that would be harder to prove as we both have company laptops, cell phones, etc that are password protected. No way in heck that she would give me those (hmm maybe a boundary that I need to set?) Without that maybe I need to set aside the affair for now--but that also seems to be the needed kick in the pants to get things moving also???