Yes....forgiveness. I do believe is a VERY key element. This is what I work on myself and admittedly some resentment does creep in at times....But resentment will only accomplish one thing: Sabotage. Whether it's to improve yourself and/or reconcile down the line with your ex if that option presents itself. Forgiveness can be a fine line. Sometimes you feel like a chump for choosing to walk down that path, but I think it is the best way, within reasonable boundaries of course. Negative feelings, resentment, etc. will just eat at you like a psychic cancer. Just my .02. Speaking of forgiveness, I'm trying to forgive Daaaaaaa Bears for not showing up to Sunday's game. That defense needs some DBing techniques. Ok, I copied that crack from someone else, but just have been dying to use it.
