Another waw/mlc and I need support

[cyclone]

Another night of her insisting that I move out. She goes in cycles with this. Every few days she tries to force the issue. I don't get sucked into a fight about it but I do repeat that I will not move out. This is her decision and her choice, not mine, and she needs to face the consequences of those choices. She will be giving up an enviable life and the kids are already starting to hate her for leaving them.

It takes every ounce of my energy to not get sucked into that fight. I try really hard to just say that we've talked about this before and I'm not going to talk about it any more but it doesn't always work. This time she did it right in front of S7 and he said back to her that there is plenty of room in the house for both of us.

Days like this make me realize that I can move on from this. I don't want to be with a person like she is right now. I can see how it would feel easy to grow in the towel and just be done with it. I still have hope that she will make if through the tunnel and be someone that I will want to be with. I think we owe it to our kids to be together for them.