The thing is, we've been on a few dates and she constantly brings up this woman. She's pretty much fixated on it. So, other than being happy, confident, etc, what else? Do I cave and take this woman off FB? I mean, what's next after that? What else do I let her control? I know you're going to answer yes Puppy, but what else am I missing?
You're not missing ANYTHING, John. I mean, you've analyzed this thing to DEATH, and she is who she is. She's NOT going to change, and you have to decide (!!!!!) what you want to do, for you and your daughter, and then you need to JUST FREAKING DO IT.
All this dithering isn't good for ANY of the three of you.
