Make a decision... Next time she calls or texts and sounds like she wants to be with you.. Ask her to do something fun WITHOUT your daughter.... Have it planned, but make it sound spur of the moment.. Then GO DO IT and take charge of NOT talking about the relationship and just get back to the basics of having fun and being a man....
Ok, I did this. I asked her if she wants to do something with me and she said no. She says she is done. She said since I've refused to take this woman off my friends list that she will make the decision for me in that I don't want to be with my wife anymore. A bit of a stretch--once again, it feels like she's trying to control the situation. I pointed that out to her. She said no, this is the only thing I've asked for and you've refused so I'm done. I said ok, have a good night and hung up.
The thing is, we've been on a few dates and she constantly brings up this woman. She's pretty much fixated on it. So, other than being happy, confident, etc, what else? Do I cave and take this woman off FB? I mean, what's next after that? What else do I let her control? I know you're going to answer yes Puppy, but what else am I missing?
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
