Am I at this stage?

[TrentC]

You know the more and more you talk about it the more and more it gets me thinking. And I'm starting to get upset even though I wasn't at first. But when he was here friday, let me tell you it was intimate. Like I said earlier, we made out like we were 16 yrs old and for a while! It was romantic and fun and obviously led to more. He made me feel comfortable told me 3 to 4 times how much he missed me and so on. And to blow me off after that is starting to get to me. I would love to talk to him about it, but I take it that's a no no??

Exactly. He doesn't need to hear anything more about it other than, you're not going to take the chance on getting burned like that again until he makes up his mind to stay.