I appreciate you posting to me. Yes, H is having it rough right now, but unlike a lot of people, he didn't come by it honest. He had a very good job and lost it due mostly to his involvement with OW. He is suffering the consequences of his dishonest and disgraceful actions. I worry about him but I do not feel sorry for him.
He became involved with her the summer he was supposed to be applying for tenure at the university where he taught. He never finished it - never turned in his portfolio. They had to let him go.
Why does he have 236,000 miles on his truck? OW lives 200 miles away. He drove to see her every single weekend for over a year and a half. Now he lives there - and we're not even D yet.
He mentions not being able to visit Florida because we spent all of our vacations there, 2-3 weeks at a time, for 20 years - boating, fishing, staying with his mom, sister, niece & nephew. When I couldn't go he would go by himself at least 4 times a year. We were going to retire there. He's given it all up for someone who "doesn't like the water and thinks fishing is cruel".
Go back and read my history if you have a chance. I'll check up on you. I haven't done a very good job lately of posting to others but I need to start - I've learned so much these last 2 years.
Kimmie Lee and Pearl Your bullsh!t meters are fine tuned. I haven't responded to the email yet but I did forward it to my L.
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10
Your bullsh!t meters are fine tuned. I haven't responded to the email yet but I did forward it to my L.
