Donna, I've had the pleasure a few times of having to deal with OP. Honestly, I felt nothing. I actually had a pleasant chat with OP last time we had the pleasure! I dropped in to STBX's place with D12 to pick up something she had forgotten. STBX did not answer the door so D said she was probably in the backyard, so we went there. She was right, there was STBX and OP sitting there sipping drinks. I was actually quite surprised that I didn't have any kind of reaction. Think about it, there is OP sitting in MY friggin' backyard sipping a drink. That could get an emotional reaction but it didn't. I think it may be because I don't blame OP, STBX is the one who broke our vows. In a way, I feel sorry for OP because she (yes, she) is allowing STBX to just keep her on a shelf. You must be a very lonely person to allow that. OP never sees or spends time with our children and I have no idea why STBX wants it that way...maybe it's the lesbo thing...who really knows. But, that's my 2 cents anyway...don't know if it was much help but I tried.
