Apathy? A good 180 would be to find some new interests or hobbies to pursue (or old interests to pick up again; is there anything you stopped doing when you got married?)
Doing things just for fun. I think responsibilities got the best of both of us so I need to learn to relax and have fun again. GAL will be hard for me, we both focused almost exclusively on each other for so long. After the last cross country move, I did not do what I needed to do to develop close friendships locally. I have a close friend that has helped support me through this but he and all of my family are 1000 miles away. I have to GAL from the ground up which seems very intimidating.
Over the past couple of years, I had started picking back up on an old hobby (guitar) which I did when I was young. In some ways, I think both of us lost ourselves in the MR and we were both attempting to rediscover ourselves over the past couple of years.
