Tommorrow is our 20th wedding anniversary. I would have expected to be much more emotional over this, and I would have several months back, but in many ways it is just another day but it does have special significance that I will enjoy recognizing. There have been a lot of great things because of this marriage and I am grateful for it even though it has been very trying over the past year, and difficult for several years.
As I stated earlier I am going to get off work early and go to the church we were married at to give thanks for what the M brought to my life and acknowledge it as a good and positive thing while it lasted.
As far as interaction with the W, I don't plan to mention the anniversary but I did buy a couple of cards just in case she got me one. One is blank that I will write something for tonight.
It is dead now - there is no M except on paper - therefore this attitude seems appropriate.
ME/XW:47 S21, D19, S15, S14 M:21 T:26 W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12 W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline
