It was a crazy day as Puppy predicted. We cancelled 4 way meeting with lawyers given my learning of the affair. This is what her lawyer said about the other R: "As an aside, while my client advises that there is no doubt that my client is emotionally connected to a man, they have not had a physical relationship. While she has known this fellow for some time, their relationship evolved and they established a strong emotional connection after the separation."
Her lawyer also became very aggressive and started to make noises that they intended to attempt to obtain a court order to remove me from the home. I had to run home at lunch and ended up talking with WAS. She claims that she has ended the emotional relationship as OM is instead going to work on his marriage. She claims they do not intend to have any further contact. She claims that they never had sexual relations and that the extent of their physical contact was 5-6 occasions where they "kissed". She accused me of nearly breaking up a marriage (OM's). WAS claims she would not have continued relationship with OM (if they had not been discovered) because OM is married. I'm rather skeptical of that claim given that less than 24 hours ago she was professing her love for OM and saying that his marriage was over in any event. I told her that everything I've done has been done in effort to save marriage. Unfortunately, I became a little too embroiled in R talk and some of her complaints. She said that OM was her friend; that he listened to her; that he told her she was wonderful; that he accepted her....things she said she yearned for with me but never received. WAS was initially going to take kids and stay with her mom. However, she's now decided to stay put.
