I also don't think active alcoholics can love anyone including themselves.
Being an alcoholic myself for many years and just in this past year trying to change that, I can say that the above quote could not be more accurate.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...