Not in my nature

[pitinmygut]

I need some opinions. As I have stated above, my W has decided to move forward and get a place of her own with my son. We don't yet have any legal separation.

This choice she has made is so out in left field since she has little money to her name and no real income (owns her own business, but it is very very slow). I am really mad that she has decided to walk out on our M and she gets to have my son most of the time. I only get to see him on the weekends due to my work schedule.

The opinions I am searching for:

Should I allow her to remain on my health insurance? I would only leave my son.

Does anyone think that I might have a chance at full custody? I would look into a live-in nanny/aupair or daycare.