Calm down, calm down. S15's still only going half a day (I need to check on that b/c they need to add at least another class I think and lunch in). He takes a virtual school class at (my) home also.
So he just picked S15 up after school. And he did take him to volunteer work today. He picked up D9 after the afterschool program today although I did take her.
I did email him (twice) to follow D9's teacher's idea and leave D9's homework in her purple folder they send home each Monday so I could see it after him. It wasn't in her backpack today as I asked him to do. I told D9's math/science teacher and she said she told D9's homeroom teacher she should give me the folder, and she trusts me more than him (which I thought was sweet of her but I wonder why she feels that way though). I think the teachers do realize I'm very involved between being a homeschooler formerly and I pick her up 4 times a week in the afternoons also.
He copied the info and stuck it in my car tonight when I was at the church today. My guess would be he did that b/c of his control freak thing (he's like the gatekeeper to D9's school info?) but I don't know for sure. I also wonder if all her stuff was in there; it was just A & B papers. None of her grades (math or language arts) were in there. I believe they go home every Monday and he doesn't realize D9's teacher had given me her math grades last week, and she has 48 in her math score at the 9 week point and 53 in her homeworks.
He never notified me about that or gave me that which give me a break, he should have jumped on that with me and gotten involved with the teacher I think. I am going to check on that tomorrow and see if he only gave me part of the stuff, and if so I will copy the L on that info as I think not only is he not notifying me about stuff he should, but purposely maybe keeping info from me. He is kind of either got some kind of personality disorder or something. I mentioned once before do you think I should look into seeing him get psychologically evaluated do you think? I would probably have to pay for it or maybe my L would have suggested it, and I don't have the money! But I can't see how he could pass that with the anger and control issues he has & who knows what else. But I don't know how they work, maybe he could somehow cover it up or something; he is super smart.
D9 told me X did take her to the art workshop this weekend, but I sent him the info and it was a family art workshop, parents were supposed to do it with their child. She said he asked her if she wanted him to go with her, and she said he didn't have to, and he just dropped her off and didn't go with her. She said the art teacher helped her though. I don't know if he is really that apathetic or maybe he was afraid to go b/c half of the class is friends of mine. He won't come in at the church either, sends D9 in.
