OK, I guess am not ready for LRT. Going dark, yes. But not LRT.
I love her with all my heart. I do not want a D, in spite of what she has been doing.
J3B- We have actually been separated 4 1/2 months. It just took her this long to stop floating from place to place and get her own apartment.
I guess I don't know where the line is between being loving & supportive (but with self-respect, having a life & taking care of myself) and being a plate kept spinning on a stick.
On second thought- I guess the difference is in who is control of me and how I am feeling.
OK- just needed to write it "out loud". :-)
Thanks.
Me: 50; Wife: 48 Gay; civil union in NJ no kids M: 15 years, together 17 Bomb (OW) 2/09 (EA 3mos/PA 3mos) ILYBINILWY W out of house, w/OW, in separation talks, nothing filed