No. During her affair, she threatened to file, several times. "I'll just get a DIVORCE then!" was her rant. I finally filed, in order to protect myself and my kids. I went for full custody, and it would have been UGLY.
Last year, her affair had been over for a year, and it was more mutual. Very amicable, and we agreed to use a mediator, and we met with him once. Even went so far as to divvy up the various holidays, birthdays, etc. Very sad.
Every time we've peered into the abyss, we've backed away. And now things are going better than ever!
