Hey Trent, i read somewhere that you are doing the coaching. Do you like it? Does it seem to be helping at all? Also, you knowing best my whole sitch, would you recommend it to me?

You mentioned not replying immediately to texts or phone calls. Isn't that just playing silly high school games? I dunno, then when I get back to him and he asks why it took so long, what do I say? Also, this whole going dark, being mysterious thing. I have tried for example last week. And as soon as I walk in the door he is asking where I was. Well then what? So much for being mysterious, I'm not going to lie to the guy! You're right about the worrying. Its my key characteristic, I get that from my father. When you commented on not practicing half as well as you preach, I feel that all falls back to the comment I made on knowing what needs to be done, and actually doing it, and how completely different they are. I need a big kick in the butt to get going and maybe so do you. He he


M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14