Can I save my marriage?

[chatterbug]

I knew that it was working two ways.
1. WAS complained to my mom that no contact was making it real difficult for her "Cutter's decision to cut off all communication with me made this more difficult"
More importantly when a lightbulb turned on late last week.
2. I realized that I had switched doing this from my was to myself.

At the begining it may help to set up your activities to do both. But make sure your goal is yourself. And it will just take over. It took almost 2 months for me to just grasp the concept that I was really doing this for myself. You will hear One door closes and another opens ( about 100 million times too many) Each time you think of that door that is opening look in a mirror and smile. You already know your a good person. Now embrace and reward yourself. Hold your own hand.