What to do, what to do?

[pearlharbr]

Does it matter to you why H is moving back in? Is he still in communication with OW? Is that a dealbreaker for you? What conditions did you state originally about moving back in? If none, what conditions are must haves for you to have him move back in? Do not cave in just because he said he'll come back. Maintain your stated boundaries.

Yes, you can DB with him at home. You should be doing the same things whether he's there or not: GAL activities, 180s, working on detaching and being the best LuLu possible. You will need to step it up and be positive and cheerful, look good and be a little mysterious around him.

Not that you can turn back time but I would not have forwarded that email to H. Of course H was annoyed at being told off and now he can put that on you because you sent the email. It is a controlling move and has been viewed as such.

In your previous post you said you were going to back way off. What happened to that? It's still a good idea.