Can I save my marriage?

[TrentC]

So true. Never thought of it that way. It could have meant absolutely nothing to him! Errr...

Why is why you need to set the boundary, and get some kind of protection in case he manages to sweep you off your feet again.

You're right about the expectations thing. Until I am detached I will have them. And that's the basics. I understand that, so now I am going to work on detaching. I don't want those expectations. They just bring me down. Thanks citygirl.

You can always come here to vent. We're good listeners.

Another good idea would be to carry a small journal with you when you're out and about -- when you get those feelings, write them out and them let them go.